Hospitalised from 8-13 Oct

The day has arrived... though i took half day off but i only left office at 3pm =(
Lucky dad did the admission on his own & he was resting when i went to his ward. Suddenly the doc who did the lapiscope for my dad came & said he has something to tell us. My heart sunk when he told me that the results of the test showed that my dad was diagnosed with Cancer. Instead of removing part of the intestine, now they need to remove the whole thing by doing key hole plus a bikini line to take out the intestine. He said i need to make the decision right away & need my dad to sign a consent form as they worried the cells may spread. No one was with me & i'm really in a lost.. Called daddy jen & he really wake me up by knocking my head hard. Lucky my bro just knocked off & i asked him to come asap. Doc say this will be a major op & it'll takes about 4-5hrs.

Can tell dad was very upset though he said doc always exaggerate but it's nothing but the truth so we just got to accept it. We can only explained & assured him that all will be well.

9/10/09
Brought mum for breakfast b4 settling off to hospital. Can tell she didn't sleep well as her eyes was swollen & she just drank a cup of coffee saying no appetite...
Accompany dad to the operating theatre & told him we'll be waiting for him outside.
I breakdown immediately once dad was wheeled into the OT. Both me & mum cried together.. I've been enduring till i can't take it anymore, i feel much better after that. My dad has always in a pink of health & he seldom fall sick though he has high blood pressure & irregular heart beat. Why must such thing happen to him???
Waiting time is a torture... as time pass, we keep looing out of the ward & expected my dad to be wheeled back anytime soon.. but things dun turn well. He was sent to ICU straight as his heart beat slowed down during the operation. So they need to monitor him for the night. Lousy me, cried again when i saw him with so many tubes..
Didn't managed to see the doctors but the nurses ensure me that they will monitor & give me a call once my dad can transferred back to normal ward.

10/10/09
Called the nurse early morning & was told dad will returned to normal ward shortly. Feel relieved... Dad was not allowed to go down the bed & he need to inject morphine whenever he feel pain. He was simply too stubborn & dun wish to trouble the nurses. Even the nurses there told him off but he still can go down the bed & went toilet on his own.

Picnic at Labrador Park

It was a super hot & sunny sunday. We bought coupons from Comchest for their family day charity & organised the picnic together with my colleague & family. All of us have great fun & the kids enjoy running around the park. In the end, all 3 of us turn into red hot lobster at night as we kena sunburn!

My action packed boy!

Jerald turn 2 year old today

OMG.. My precious baobei turns 2 today. Brought him to the Zoo, Sentosa Underwater world & got him a mini cake as he keep asking me to buy as he want to eat & loves to blow candles.


Daddy & mummy would like to wish baobei a very Happy Birthday. It has been a wonderful journey & we really glad to have you as our child. You simply melts our heart whenever you call us & even say sorry & sayang us whenever you did something wrong or throw tantrum. By doing that, we feel that you are a very sensible boy though at times you really drive us to the wall.. May you be blessed with good health & happy always. We loves you & you will always be our precious baobei.

Jerald's 2nd Birthday Party

Time flies.. Jerald has grow up from a chubby new born baby to a super active toddler. We had a mini bday celebration for Jerald at home. Just invited some frds & family members.

Super busy day on 22.08.09

Early morning brought Jerald to Peek-a-boo at Kallang to meet up with some Sept'07 mummies & families to celebrate our children 2nd Bday in advance & also catch up with one another.


Ayden's bday party. His bday cake is so beautiful...


Playing with the parrots at Farm mart

How i Wish...

All along i've always wish to have a bb gal as my 1st child & everyone guess it's a gal but... gynae cfm it's a boy when he was only 3mths old inside my tummy =) Anyway boy or gal is the same so long as they are healthy & happy can liao..

His eye lashes are so long compared to mine lei..

Do we look alike??

Lunch with Ex colleagues

We had a wonderful lunch with my ex colleagues at Cafe Cartel in Sengkang. Miss the days where we talk everything & anything in office. Wasted one by one left the company as the boss don't appreciate everybody's hard work. Though we still keep in touch but it's never the same anymore.. Miss all the gals...

Father & son

Isn't it cute to capture a pic of both Daddy Jen & Jerald posing the same smile...

Renfred's birthday

Today we went to cousin's place & barbecue at his place downstairs. Lucky the rain stopped not long after we reached. It's supposed to be a gathering with some relatives & also to celebrate Father's Day in advance but it turns out to be another surprise. We were invited to their house after the packing & all of a sudden, cousin's wife May brought out a cake & we got a shocked when we saw the name "Renfred" on it. So it's their son birthday.. See how jerald pose infront of the camera again haha...


The boy in yellow is Renfred but hor Jerald seems more happy than anyone.

Pizza Hut

Happy Jerald pose for the camera while waiting for the food to arrive.



He really laugh out loud, lucky no one chase us out hee...

Jerald imitate his daddy to try to open the 'capsule" in the end knock his mouth ouch!! His action is funny..

Signature Smile

My baobei "new" style. Few months back he used to tilt his head all of a sudden, knock his head no matter right or wrong & now he will give u this "kind" of look when u say smile..

See how he turn the wheel. My future car racer??? LOL!

Wake up early in the morning feeling hungry & slight giddy as i can't sleep last night & also starts to fast since 10pm. I'm gg for my xray & IVU scan today, hated the procedure. Dropped jerald at my parents house & reached Gleneagles hospital b4 9am. Though appointment time was 9am but i was told to wait till 9.40am then it's my turn. Worst is they told me the xray will takes abt 30-40mins but it was nearly 12noon when i came out. Feel bad for making Daddy Jen wait, if i know i shld ask him to go for his coffee & breakfast. Even my doc also called them to check why i take so long. As my doc's clinic closed at 1pm, we told them to rush the report asap so tat i can visit my doc straight away.

Managed to reach doc's clinic b4 1pm & he is proud to announce tat my wound is healing well internally. I'm so happy tat he gave me green light to carry jerald after so many mths. I'm also allowed to do some light exercises as well yipee!!! Next step, will arrange for a day to do endoscopy to remove the J. Stent inside my body. After tat will need to go thru xray & tests again, once everything clear i'll live like a normal person liao. Praying hard & crossing fingers, hopefully no more complications.

Today brought jerald to CCK family clinic for his booster & also last jab in 6-in-1. Posing & waiting for his turn to be poke by doc hee..


Drop by cousin's place at Senjar rd & jerald have fun playing in their "little farm" & also wan to "kok" his head with 1 of their pet rabbit.

20mths old

Today's Vesak day & so coincidence jerald turns 20 months old today as well, so brought jerald to colleague's temple to pray & get blessing from their shifu. Followed by a gathering with neighbourhood mummies & kiddos for a swim date at Esther's place. This's the 2nd time i brought jerald for a swim haha.. must be a shock to many ppl. Daddy Jen scared those public pool not so clean so have been hesitating whether to bring or not. But after seeing how jerald enjoy himself. We promise to bring him swimming more often, provided Daddy Jen accompany jerald *wink*



Jerald caught us with surprise & am glad tat he knows how to do it on his own without us teaching him.

Jerald say "Hi"

It has been more than 2 weeks liao & finally we managed to wean jerald off his pacifier & he managed to sleep on his own without it. Though he tends to ask us on & off but once we told him we had throw it away, he'll just play with his toys & forget about it. But another habit has started... my dad tends to carry & pat him to sleep which i dun allowed. Jerald also tends to wake up & cry for no reason, maybe he really feels insecure & wan to see if we'll give in to his pacifier if he cry. Told my dad off but elderly won't listen so we've no choice since we need to work & can't supervise him ourselves. So we do our ways when we got home & tried not to give in no matter how he cried till he vomit. Just got to endure endure..

Slowly I've become his new found "koala bear" he'll cling on to me & ask me to "bao bao" him whenever he wan to sleep. Once he's sounds asleep then i'll transfer him to his bed. It's damn tiring but it's better than waking up to search for his pacifier every middle of the night whenever he cried. Glad tat everything is over...

Buay si tiam boy


Laughing non stop...


Jerald's pet dog LOL!